Sometimes one of the kids is interested in something for a few weeks and then moves on. A joke that was funny every day can disappear from the dinner table. A question I heard over and over can give way to another one. I usually notice the change after it’s happened.

I’d like to keep a few notes about what they’re into while it’s still part of our day. A line about what made us laugh or what they spent a whole afternoon drawing would be enough. I know I’d enjoy reading those details later, especially the ones that feel too ordinary to write down now.

There’s a reason to pay attention today, too. If I remember what they were excited about yesterday, I can ask them about it today. They get a chance to show me a little more of something they care about, and I get to know them a little better.