Benjamin Lu

everyday is cool

Helping Someone Carry the Day

Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.

— Galatians 6:2 (KJV)

When someone says they’re overwhelmed, it can be hard to know what to offer. A family member might have dinner to make, homework to check, and a call they still need to return. Asking “Would it help if I handled dinner?” gives them something specific to accept or decline.

This verse makes me think about the difference a small task can make. Taking one thing off someone’s plate gives them a little room to breathe. It also takes listening, because the job I want to help with may be different from the one they need help with.

I want to get better at making an offer I can follow through on. Doing the dishes, picking up groceries, or sitting with someone while they make a difficult call can be a practical way to share the weight of the day.